January 31, 2011

Job Chart...Attempt #5

I've made several attempts at getting my kids to follow a job chart. The problem...

Me.

I'm not very good at enforcing it. It always goes good for about two weeks and then I forget to tell the munchkins to check their chart for the daily jobs and they don't generally hop on the job wagon by themselves. Or I forget to print out new jobs after they've filled up the previous chart with stickers.

So here we go again. I used these cute job pictures that my friend Kylene sent me (about 3 years ago) and made a chart. Then I laminated them so the girls can use dry erase markers to check off their jobs and we can re-use it week after week. So far so good.


The award = $$$

I was in a ward council once where the Bishop had been spending time interviewing the youth in preparation for their trip to the temple to do baptisms. He was very concerned that a lot of the kids were unable to answer if they were full tithe payers because they were rewarded with toys, activities, video games, etc...instead of cash so they weren't able to pay tithing. Ever since then I decided that my kids would earn money. For Christmas they each got one of those banks that has a slot for tithing, savings, and fun. They pay tithing first, then savings, and then put the rest in fun money.

We've been going for 4 weeks now and It's going pretty good and I don't push them too hard to do their jobs. If they don't do them, they don't get paid. And the next time they want me to buy them something (which is every time we go into any store) then I'll ask them if they have their money. If you haven't earned any money then SORRY, no can do.

January 3, 2011

Just One Word

We made it! Another year has flown by and we have managed to stay up on our game. Now I'm turning my focus on what I'd like to improve on this next year.

It's been said that no one ever is at a stand still in their lives. You are either progressing or regressing, moving forward or falling back. I prefer to make each day better than the one before but if I bite off more than I can chew then I get discouraged. So at the beginning of each year I like to pick ONE word that I will focus on for the next 12 months. Just one word. That's not so bad right? This year I have chosen...

"PRIORITIZE"

Most of us Women/Mom's get REALLY good at multi-tasking because our job description depends on it. However, I tend to take this to the EXTREME and start too many things at the same time only to get them halfway done before I burn out. OR I've run myself so ragged accomplishing my task list that I find myself feeling resentful. This turns me into a Grouchy Mama and believe me, it ain't pretty. Somethings gotta change and this is my year...ESPECIALLY since I was just called as the Primary President. Ahhhh! I can already tell that if I don't write down my "to do" lists and organize them into a realistic time frame than I'm going to get overwhelmed. Plus if I just try to remember all the things I need to do than I don't even know where to start and once again...overwhelmed!!! One day at a time people, one day at a time.

Good thing I have moments like these to keep me sane. (or maybe I've already lost it!)

Do you have a 2011 theme?